Meet Muslim singles for marriage in London, at the cafe

If you've looked for Muslim marriage events in London, a shofa is an everyday cafe meeting with no ticket and no set date. Check in at a partner cafe to see who else there is open to a shofa. If you both wave, you'll meet at the cafe's shofa table.

Placeholder pencil drawing of Dar Dessert Lounge, an example dessert lounge

How it compares with a marriage event

A ticketed event

  • A set date and a ticket, often £15 to £30 in London
  • Timed rounds with everyone in the room
  • Contact afterwards, usually by chat

A shofa at a partner cafe

  • Any day the cafe is open
  • One person at a time, after you've both waved
  • One meeting at the shofa table, with set messages about getting there and no chat

For more on event formats, read what happens at a Muslim marriage event.

Where we meet in London

The first London partner cafes haven't been announced yet. Once they open, you can check in at any of them, one at a time.

The cards below are examples on Whitechapel Road, E1, drawn to show what a street of partner cafes looks like.

Example cafe · Yemeni coffee house

Qamar Coffee House

112 Whitechapel Road, London E1

  • Open today 09:00–00:00
  • Meetings at the window table
  • Female photographer available
See the cafe

Example cafe · Chai and karak house

Saffron Chai House

41 New Road, London E1

  • Open today 07:00–23:00
  • Meetings at the corner booth
  • Female photographer available
See the cafe

Example cafe · Dessert lounge

Dar Dessert Lounge

189 Whitechapel Road, London E1

  • Open today 12:00–01:00
  • Meetings at the long table by the counter
  • No female photographer yet
See the cafe

Example cafe · Bakery and cafe

Bayt Bakehouse

7 Vallance Road, London E1

  • Open today 08:00–17:00
  • Meetings at the big round table
  • Female photographer available
See the cafe

Example cafe · Specialty coffee

Nour Coffee

256 Whitechapel Road, London E1

  • Open today 09:00–22:00
  • Meetings at the bench under the window
  • No female photographer yet
See the cafe

Questions about London

Is shofa.social a Muslim marriage event?

A shofa is an everyday meeting at a partner cafe, with no ticket. Check in whenever you're there. If you and someone in the cafe both wave, you'll meet at the cafe's shofa table, straight away or at a time you both pick.

How much does it cost in London?

One photoshoot, paid at the cafe's own till at a price the cafe sets (we suggest £5). That shoot includes three cafes.

Which London cafes are partners?

The first London cafes haven't been announced yet. The cafes on Whitechapel Road shown on this site are examples.

I live elsewhere in London. Can I use shofa.social?

Yes, if you can get to a partner cafe, because you only see people checked in at the same cafe as you. If there's a cafe near you that you'd like on shofa.social, show the owner our page for cafes.